"How to Make Progress on Your Creative Projects, Even with a Toddler in Tow
Hello, how's it going? As an illustrator and a busy parent, I totally get how frustrating it can be to feel like you never have enough time for your projects. It's like there's always something else that needs your attention, right?
But here's the thing: even if you can't spend hours at a time working on your creativity, you can still find ways to make progress. Trust me, I've been there! Since becoming a mom, I've had to adjust my approach to work and get creative with how I find time for both deadlines and personal work.
Embracing Short Bursts of Creative Work
One unexpected benefit of working in shorter bursts is that it allows me to have "lightning bolt" moments of inspiration while I'm out and about with my son. I always make sure to carry a sketchbook or my phone with me so I can jot down my ideas as soon as they come to me. It's amazing how much creativity can flow when you're not sitting at a desk trying to force it.
Of course, balancing creative work with parenting responsibilities can still be a challenge. Here are a few strategies I've found helpful:
- Embrace the "snippets"! Use the small windows of time you have in your day. Rather than getting frustrated that you don't have a full day to work, see what you can accomplish in 20-30 minutes here and there. Even a little progress is better than none. For example, when I take Wolfgang to soft play, I will bring my sketchbook and draw him playing.
- Be flexible. If your child needs your attention, don't get upset about having to stop working. Instead, see it as an opportunity to take a break and come back to your work with fresh eyes later.
- Involve your child in your creative process. Depending on their age, they may enjoy painting alongside you or helping you choose colors for a project. If you write picture books, brainstorm together and test out ideas.
- Have talisman and uses it as visuals and physicals reminders to stick to your long term plans and stay on your path when things are tough
- Prioritize self-care. When you're feeling stressed or overwhelmed, taking care of yourself is key. It's not easy, but just taking a few deep breaths in the moment works wonders, and make sure to carve out time for yourself at the start or end of the day when you can. And finally, the silver bullet catch-all: dance! Dance! Dance, baby! You will get the endorphins going, de-stress, and your little one will love it too. And the best accomplishment to any creative endeavor is joy.
As Mother's Day approaches, I've been working on some special cards for the amazing mum in my life. It's been a great way to show my appreciation and gratitude for all they've done for me. If you're feeling stuck for ideas, try thinking about what kind of creative project would be meaningful for someone you care about. It can really help you work to go from good to great to make something for someone special, as they say in the picture, lies the universal.
Finally, to anyone who's feeling the pressure of juggling multiple roles and responsibilities, I want to say: keep going. This phase of life will pass, and you will find new ways to balance your creative work and your other responsibilities. Remember that even the smallest moments of creativity can be meaningful and fulfilling. Keep a sketchbook handy, stay open to inspiration, and keep making."